You don't hate men. I believe most feminists don't hate men. There are still some that do. There are some that say misandry is a reasonable and justifiable response to misogyny. Let me clarify what that means to me: it is reasonable to hate all men (that's what misandry means) because there are men who oppress women. There are some writing for Medium today, and I have yet to observe a woman call them out when they do. I know why: solidarity. It's the same reasoning that men use to excuse misogyny. However, calling them out would go a long way towards debunking this myth.