Yet there are plenty people in the anti-Amber Heard crowd that are not anti-woman. In fact, there are plenty of women in the anti-Amber Heard crowd. My biggest problem with Amber Heard isn't that she was abusive to Johnny. I think it's very possible that Johnny abused her too. So far, I don't think any evidence has been presented that makes that an absolute certaintly.
What bugs me is that she presented herself as an abuse victim/survivor in the Washington Post op-ed, while being so abusive herself, and the society just believed her. I know there are legitimate abuse victims that fight back and that's to be expected, but her behavior goes beyond that. I think she did this as an opportunist to gather buzz for her career while sticking it to Johnny. And we all helped her.
TLDR: I think they abused each other. Amber Heard wrote an op-Ed article claiming to be a victim. Johnny didn't. Amber Heard deserves to be sued for defamation. I don't care about man vs woman.