Yes, women that choose to remain child-free are not typically going to seek out men to support them financially.

Yes, women that choose to stay single, definitively speaking, aren't looking for husbands.

Women who choose to get married and have children typically seek out marriage partners that make enough for them to stay home when the children are young. I'm not saying they always get them, but that is what they typically want. It's either that or the couple has to pay for childcare. Either way it's hard to afford. Still, people are doing it.

What I'm challenging is your statement that women do not play any part in enforcing the the 'provider' social norm that men face. I've read a few of your articles. From my perspective, it seems like you feel that men are mostly responsible for all of the ills of society and women only contribute to what is good in society. It's very biased.

Men and women are both equally capable of good and evil in society, in my opinion.