Yea! This. It's one thing to say stuff like that in a bar while venting, it's another thing to post it on the internet in a discussion about gender equality.
I did read your whole post. You and I are in alignment on a lot of things. We just want the world to be a better place for both men and women. We want men and women to be able to interact from a place of mutual respect. I can tell you that my interest in men's rights doesn't come at the expense of women's rights. I think it is absolutely reasonable to be an advocate for both.