Wow. I'm glad I'm married. Dating is a shit show. "He's high strung and can't keep a hard on (because of his high stress job). But he makes a lot of money and I can get nice things from him." Definitively objectifying him. But in your words; it's not inherently wrong. Geez.

I noticed in another article you wrote that you didn't expect your dates to be able to contribute to a meaningful conversation. You don't really like men, do you? Why are you dating? Why in God's green earth are you giving dating advice?