Why do you go on dates then? I can see why you don’t like coffee dates. You show up with this expectation that your date won’t be able to contribute to a meaningful conversation with you. Well of course there isn’t a second date. You’re not going to the date to meet someone and get to know them. You’ve already set up the expectation that they aren’t worth your time. You’re going to the date for what you can get from someone. If you aren’t going to interact with them in a fulfilling way, why are they there? Apparently to get the check. How dehumanizing. You don’t feel any remorse for getting someone who you despise to pay for your meal?