They do though. First of all the Feminist model for DV/IPV (The Duluth Model) explicitly denies the existence of male victims in female to male DV/IPV.

Holly Baxter, a well known Feminist Executive Editor for Social Justice and Equity at The Independent's bureau in New York wrote an article about how we don't need International Men's Day.

Suzanna Danuta Walters, the director of the Women’s, Gender, and Sexuality Studies Program and professor of sociology at Northeastern University, Boston, wrote the following in her opinion article in the Washington Post title, Why can’t we hate men

So men, if you really are #WithUs and would like us to not hate you for all the millennia of woe you have produced and benefited from, start with this: Lean out so we can actually just stand up without being beaten down. Pledge to vote for feminist women only. Don’t run for office. Don’t be in charge of anything. Step away from the power. We got this. And please know that your crocodile tears won’t be wiped away by us anymore. We have every right to hate you. You have done us wrong. #BecausePatriarchy. It is long past time to play hard for Team Feminism. And win.

You can’t tell me that this isn’t real feminism. This was written by an academic in a highly ranked university whose focus in sociology and Women’s, Gender and Sexuality studies. She represents central feminist ideology. She makes no separation between men and the patriarchy. You can complain about the women vs men narrative and blame it all on men. But you’re wrong.