The age gap in the relations is part of what drives inequality. It seems like you sought out men that were economically privileged relative to you. You did this with the expectation that they would pay for dates. This is a prevalent social norm. However, it is my opinion that this is a social norm that stands in the way of gender equality. I'm not alone, and it's not only men that feel this way.

Accusing me of mansplaining is very disingenuous and seeks to dismiss me without considering my perspective simply because it differs from yours and that I am a man. In the world of female/male relationships, I am entitled to my opinion as much as you are.