That's fair. I don't consider vasectomy contraceptive, but I get your point. I just feel like there is this notion that women should be able to weigh on whether a guy gets a vasectomy or not but feel that whether or not they get an abortion is none of his business.

When you're married, it's just different. I know I would never get a vasectomy without telling my wife. I feel like there's something weird about our marriage for me not to tell her.