Thanks for writing this article. I agree that men should embrace their feminine qualities while accepting that women can have masculine qualities.
On another note: I hate, hate, hate the "real man" trope. WTF does that mean anyway?. It's like saying be a real "human being". It's a judgement that says, if you don't fit into my definition of something then you aren't a real person... Nobody says, be a "real women". Women get to be women because they were born that way.