Thanks for writing this. I agree with the premise of the article, you can't make someone genuinely commit to a relationship if they don't want to. However, in my opinion, considering the significance of these things 3 statements without the financial context is likely to yield a misinterpretation. Finances are often a taboo subject with couples, because they often expose behaviors that we rather not talk about.

1. I'm not ready for commitment - For many men, commitment is as much financial as it is emotional. Engagement rings, weddings, homes and children usually require a significant financial commitment. Men may be particularly wary of commitment if they feel that these are burdens for them to bear alone. A frank discussion about expectations around finances may help clear this one up. That can be a difficult and awkward conversation for sure.

2. I'm not good enough for you - My opinion is that 'good enough' for men is often 'I don't make enough money'. Again, a frank discussion about expectations around finances may clear this one up.

3. I don't want to have children - He may never want children. He also may not feel like he can afford to support children. Again, a frank discussion about finances could make this clearer.