Men, when you hear a woman say this kind of stuff...run and don't look back. I mean, look at her profile: self-worship conflated with maturity?. Really says it all to me.

On the flip side, don't adopt this selfishness as a dating strategy. Treat people as you want to be treated. Don't take advantage of people as a defense mechanism. It's all so toxic.

I think there is definitely a discussion on dating traditions (who pays, who asks) that can be had without all the hate.