Me, personally? I got married and I have children...so I haven't been accused of that personally. However, I've heard women talk about men who didn't want to get married, or husbands who didn't want children and described them that way. Why would that surprise you?

I can tell you, married with children is no joke. It's a shame that anyone enters into it because of societal pressures. It should be a genuine desire. There are plenty of other ways to find fulfillment in life regardless of if you are a man or a woman.