Man here. Homicides are horrible. Men make up 80% of homicide victims worldwide.

https://www.unodc.org/unodc/en/data-and-analysis/global-study-on-homicide.html

So yes, men are missing from the debate in more than one way. I worry for the safety of my wife, my daughter and my son. Why do we keep focusing primarily on female victims. Are men's lives worth so little? Try this:

Google women's safety.

Results return articles about violence against women.

Google men's safety

Results return ads for work boots.

I guess men's feet are more important than their lives