It's one thing when you criticize a privileged majority by calling out discriminatory behavior. Here you're just criticizing all behavior of the privileged majority, even the behavior that has nothing to do with you. And you do it under the guise of being helpful: Be less straight. Those same words have been used against gay people (be less gay) in a very harmful way. I just don't see how you, can turn around do the same thing and not see it. We're people too.