I'm suggesting that women can do whatever they want. I'm also suggesting that men should have the right to choose whether or not they want to be a parent or not.

During the window in which women can have an abortion, men should have the same choice. If they do not want to be a father, they should have the opportunity to waive their parental rights. If the woman still wants to have the child once the man has decided not to be a father, that's her choice.

Your response sounds eerily similar to pro-lifers. "If women don't want to have children, they should use birth control or abstain".