I'm not saying men or women have it easier or better, I'm just pointing out that this is faulty reasoning. Saying that women and men must have an equal experience in online dating because, by definition, they are equally represented on a single date is faulty reasoning. If you go to a ballroom dance where there are 10 men to every woman, each couple dancing will have one of each, this is true. That's not how you measure fairness. Look at how many of each gender aren't dancing. That's how you measure fairness.