if you're a good guy and don't behave that way towards women, why are you taking it personally? it comes across as siding with the men who are terrible , tbh. in my experience, men who understand where the distrust comes from, and who show with their words and actions that they are good men, do really well with women.

So, let me get this straight. If I object to someone using generalizations to characterize my gender, then it's reasonable to suspect that I'm guilty of whatever is being generalized:

"Men are all rapist"

"That's an unfair generalization"

"Why are you taking this personally? Are you a rapist?"

It's a kafka trap. Are you are saying is that good men understand how untrustworthy (abusive, lazy and entitled) their gender is and bad men don't? I have a more favorable perspective of my gender. The men in my life are not abusive, lazy and entitled. I guess that makes me a bad person?