I like this. When I was younger, I felt that I would rather not engage in any sexual activity if we going to stop short of having sex. Kissing and cuddling, sure. Foreplay without sex, no. It would frustrating. The hamburger analogy works well here. It would be like just having one bite of a hamburger, and that's it.

I remember when I was younger having a passionate make out session with a girl. I started to unbutton her shirt and she said, no, I don't want to have sex. She said that she was enjoying making out and wanted to continue. I told her I needed to stop. If we had the conversation you mentioned before we started, I may not have gotten so worked up. Just to be clear, I'm not blaming her for anything.

Now that I'm older, by libido is no longer supercharged, it would be no big deal to have foreplay and no sex.