I get what you're saying. I hate when I see legitimate messages poluted with misogyny. However, It's not that different with Feminism. There is a subculture of misandry within Feminists circles (Men are trash, Kill all men, Male Tears...etc) Does that delegitimize the message of women's advocacy within the context of gender equality? No, it doesn't. Shouldn't it be the same way with men's rights? Should we dismiss the issues and claim that men are just interested in countering female victimhood with male victimhood? Isn't that gaslighting? Why not ignore all of the bullshit and just focus on the issues?