I don't think I called anybody names. I commented on the content of your article. You on the other hand referred to men wanting to "split the bill" as cheapskates, did you not? Is that not name calling? You are certainly entitled to your standards. However, referring to anyone that doesn't meet your standards as ignorant or a cheapskate is something else. And you're not not just talking about your standards, you are giving dating advice to the general population of women. You are telling them what their standards should be.
Maybe I don't understand "the economics of dating", but I certainly understand the economics of living. What you describe in your article is not aligned with the economics of living.