I didn't make an analogy. I guess you mean that's the problem with point I was trying to make. My point was simply that men have to face the fear of violence too. You are correct, men do not have to deal with the constant danger of sexual assault, but they do deal with the danger of violence and that's all I'm saying. I don't know what you are implying that last statement, but sounds like it's victim blaming. Really? Are you really saying that men are complicit in their own homicides because they are criminals? What a horrible thing to say. When a woman is murdered, it's a tragedy? If a man is murdered, he probably had it coming? Geez.