Hollywood is different than 'real life'. Men who partner younger women do so at a cost. If you are rich and famous, you can afford that cost. (My opinion) For most of us men, partnering with a much younger woman means trading something crucial for youth (character, emotionally stability, financial independence). For most of us, it's not worth it. We're better off partnering with someone close to our own age. My wife, who I have been married to for about 20 years is 3 years younger than me.