Guys, showing up and helping out is only sexy to her is she's into you in the first place. I'm not talking about transactional behavior. What I am saying is that if she isn't into then you showing up and helping out is not going to change that. Don't waste your effort on her if you've been friend zoned. Deal with your disappointment and move on to someone else. Don't be that guy who shows up and helps out and then expects something.