Good point. I'm not that way and I forget others can be. I don’t know what it’s like to be a woman. I can imagine it is easier if only men that you want to approach you in a bar. That way you never have to reject anyone. That doesn’t seem realistic to me.

Still, the level of outrage for a guy, going up and offering to buy the girls a drink, seems over the top to me. And you calling me ‘sick’ for saying that also seems a bit over the top to me. You might be more convincing if you didn’t try to shame the person you’re trying to persuade. I’m not a sick person for simply having a different perspective than you, even if I’m wrong.

For me personally, it doesn’t matter, I’m not approaching any women: I’m married.