Gilian,

These are all grievances masquerading as dilemmas. Of course it's not babysitting if it's your own kid. Yet at the end of each of the articles, you ask a loaded question: "What do you think? " And you do it without really describing a dilemma. What if: all he does is work and a soon as he gets of she hands him the baby? Does he need time of his own too? The couple should discuss that and agree on it, right? However, your narrative is often very one sided.

It reminds of the gym scene in chicken little (@ 3:30)

It’s a false dilemma to force the listener to take a side in which there is no real reasonable opposing perspective. It’s a manipulative and disingenuous.