First of all, great article. You write from a place of empathy and I appreciate that. However, I don't think Feminism by itself can achieve gender equality. Feminism has never been and can never be about both genders, not completely. Feminists (and therefor Feminism) will always be biased towards the women. There will be conflicts of interest and men will not have the same level of advocacy if we rely on Feminism for it. We need our own thing.