Di,

I'm support Feminism, and I agree with you: we shouldn't be forcing anyone into gender roles they don't want. Women should feel free to be breadwinners, if that's what they want. They should feel free to be homemakers, if that's what they want. Same with men. Women and men can share both roles at the same time. However, before we start throwing rocks at either gender, we should ask ourselves why things are the way they are. I don't think the right answer is: "Because <<other gender>> is bad and my <<my gender>> is good."