But that's incorrect. Men DO get oxytocin from touch outside of sex.

You're right. I stand corrected.

I disagree that this issue is "your nature."

Respectfully, you're not a man...you don't know. You aren't providing any references to back up your disagreement. So your disagreement doesn't really mean anything to me.

Modern men have been spoiled with casual sex.

The author never said anything about casual sex. I never said anything about casual sex. We were talking about sex within the bound of relationships...particularly marriage.

You have chosen to view it as validation of ??something?? even though tons of women unfortunately have sex with men they don't want or accept because they feel obligated.

Wow. This seems like a you problem, not a me problem. I've read some of your other comments. You genuinely seem like you've been traumatized by your past relationships with men. I'm sorry that happened to you.

So I would counter, if YOU don't like women not having sex at your demand, perhaps YOU should stay away.

I think you've created some image of me (or all men) in your head that is not based on any evidence. I don't demand sex from anyone. I'm married. My wife doesn't have sex with me on demand. She has sex with me because she wants to. It's why we have two children.