As I guy, I see this and I think that I'm going to have to pay for the misdeeds of the men that came before me. I might decide that I would rather not. Maybe that's what he did.
I don't know what it's like being a women in today's world. I do know that it's going to be challenging for everyone with regards to gender equality and dating: particularly discerning a normal disagreement between two people and an issue with misogyny.