Actually, both piss me off. I don't know where you're getting your stats from, but what you don't mention is what percentage of men are abusive, lazy and entitled. I don't know how you would do that because abusiveness, laziness and entitledness are three completely different things. Laziness and entitledness are subjective. Conflating all three in a generalized statement about men is problematic to me. Abusiveness isn't gendered: both genders do it and at similar rates. Sexual abuse is more gendered , men are the prevailing perpetrators. Both genders can be lazy and entitled. So forgive me objecting to what looks like sniping at the opposite gender.